Thursday, December 7, 2017

The sick side of disgusting.

August Ames was the screen name of a 23 yo porn star. She was married and had a daughter. Her life is full of poor choices. She was scheduled to perform with an actor who also did homosexual porn. I won't call it gay, there is nothing light hearted and happy about that perverse life style. Mercedes Grabowski, her real name, took to twitter to announce she would not perform with men who do men and warn whom ever was going to be replacing her. She came under attack by the Socialist Just Ass Whores of twitter. The cyber-bullying eventually led to her hanging herself.
What leads people to such a dark side? Fifty years ago, porn was confined to the back rooms and hidden beneath the counters. The men and women who were involved were social outcast if any one discovered. In the decades since Playboy began, our society has sunk to unimaginable lows.
The disintegration of the nuclear family has played a big part. As more and more kids grow up in single parent households, they lose the stability of having a nurturer and a disciplinarian. None of us are programmed to fulfill both rolls. Both rolls are necessary to a healthy functioning adult.
Some years ago I was visiting with a guy who was a regular at the strip clubs. He said one big factor with the strippers was lack of a strong father figure in their lives. They were usually raised by their biological mother, but "dad"was a revolving door of men who came home with mom for sex, but never remained.
Was Mercedes Grabowski just another victim of America's passion for throw away relationships and destructed families? So many things wrong, she was a porn star, but married, had a child who is now motherless. Her mother was cool with her becoming a porn actress, her brothers were angry, but changed their minds after their friends thought she was hot. WHAT ABOUT DAD???
A life wasted, a child motherless all because of this. All these wrongs do not make a right.

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